Bette Lamont

Bonding Before Birth

Many adoptive parents who became parents within days or even hours of their baby’s birth, wonder why their child suffers such deep wounds and attachment challenges throughout their childhood. As early as pregnancy, the bonding process starts, with a mother who wants this baby and whose oxytocin and hormonally welcoming body provide an environment of

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Nutrition!

Our brain and our digestion, our gut health and our biochemistry, are all interactive, and it is sometimes difficult to get a full resolution of a client’s challenges without also acknowledging the importance of digestion, gut health, and biochemistry. And we know that many of our children may have started out with very poor nutrition,

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Behaviors!

How often do our children have “behaviors” that are disruptive, annoying, frightening, inappropriate, or destructive, and how many of our children have a DSM label for those behaviors? “BEHAVIORS” are overwhelming families and schools. What if we had the deep understanding that these so called behaviors are cries for help, for deep listening, for support,

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Neurodiversity

One of the trends I have appreciated is a new recognition of neurodiversity and an acceptance of children who are different in their social, emotional, and learning skills. How can we possibly truly love a person when we don’t see and accept who they really are? However, I also see a component of that trend

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